4 Ways to Die and 4 Means to Resurrect

People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. – Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
 
 
Death, the ultimate end game, or is it? There are many deaths. Here are 4 very common ones:
 
1- Death through malice – They come too quickly and too often – in wars, torture, murder, genocide and democide.  It makes you ask: “Are humans really innately good?” Why do we bring about the early demise of so many of our own? We must cease being the “irrelevant majority” and see to it that our voices are heard and actions felt to end the forces of evil in our world.
 
2- Death by suicide, neglect, famine and abandonment – Thousands die of hunger and abandonment, refugees thrown from their homes. The 2nd highest cause of death among the young is suicide. Children fighting depression and mental illness, living in a world where they cannot seem to fit simply choose to quit trying. The only answer is real, on-the-ground and present intervention, whether it is food supply or “presence” supply, a listening ear, a caring heart, open hands and sharing arms. All of us have our part.
 
3-Death through disease – Thousands die from preventable diseases, as well as diseases that could be eradicated through focused and humanitarian research and health care. And this is the right of every person. Imagine what would happen if we re-dedicated war funding to health issues? What kind of world could we bring into existence, if this were a true priority?
 
4-Death through aging – All of us grow older each day. The aged and the sick are always with us. They should be treated with the dignity and respect owed them as fellow human beings. Can we know all the best ways to do this? No, but we can be sure that it always involves caring, love and compassion.
 
Then there is Resurrection:
 
1- A US Army soldier carries a lost and abandoned child and his family to a safe zone, away from the chaos and killing that they have already experienced too much of.
 
2- A Catholic Relief Services or Red Cross volunteer enters a village of starving people in Central Africa, bringing food and hope to all he or she will meet this day.
 
3- A research team, through years of frustrating and seemingly futile efforts, discovers a breakthrough in the battle to defeat lymphoma. And then the company that employs them makes the cure readily available at a reasonable cost, so that patients are not left behind because it will bankrupt their families to provide this.
 
4- A Hospice nurse provides a bath and warm clothing and the gift of her presence to an elderly woman dying of late stage Alzheimers. She is not in the work for the pay nor to even be remembered, but because it is her calling.
 
Where there are Lazaruses, dead or left for dead, there is the need and the real possibility of resurrection. May we all learn to be the light of Resurrection!

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Music Is a Language

Zach- uke
The Master Player

Music really is a language, so when is it a good age to learn this new language?

A few weeks ago we hinted about this by referring to this wonderful TED video by Victor Wooten .  Please take a few and watch it. It’s fun and worth your time.

In this talk and other studies, we learn that we should approach music naturally and early, just like any other language. But how early?

It  is scientifically proven that playing a musical instrument increases the coordination of both hands and other interhemispheric functions (between the two sides of the brain). This is coordinated by the connections in the center of our brain, the Corpus Callosum.

Music practice also increases the white matter structure in young brains and promotes greater plasticity.

So, the brain becomes more coordinated, larger, and more flexible! What’s not to love?!

So, it should help with language, math, and science later on!

So, let’s start at 18 months!

Well … that’s a little early for anything too heavy, but not for experiencing the sounds and the feel of an instrument as my little grandson is doing in the photo above. And don’t even try to take that uke away from him! Ha!

But you might start music lessons at 4, or even 3, if your child enjoys it and can make progress without getting frustrated. In other words, if you can keep it fun.

Definitely by 5 or 6 you should be good. It will require patience and love and fun, though, at any age. And you will need an inspiring teacher, (such as my wife. Ha!) She already has 45 individual private students so this is not a plug; she would kill me :).

She knows how to keep it at their level and to keep it natural and fun. I think she becomes one of them, actually!

The lessons, and your personal and caring involvement, will gradually help your child increase his or her memory and attention span along the way, too!  

Check out this great article on music lessons and this very interesting study in the Journal of Neuroscience on the development of your child’s brain with music.

Help us all to speak and enjoy the powerful language of music!

One of my personal favorites when I taught grade school music was Raffi. His music was basic and fun and totally engaging for the young ones!

Stay with us for future conversations on the benefits of music for special needs children and adults.

 

National Spanish Paella Day!

I had my first taste of Spanish Paella at the beautiful home of my best Cuban friends, Tino and Sylvia Mendez. It was an amazing treat, and I don’t think that I’ve had better Paella at any restaurant since!
 
Paella originated in its present form in the 1800’s in Valencia on the Eastern coast of Spain. Made with rice, garlic, onions, saffron, olive oil, often shrimp, scallops, mussels, chicken, veggies and many other ingredients particular to the chef, it is cooked in a flat pan over a fire. The rice is full-bodied and an amazing golden yellow color.
 
 
You may never reach the level of Sylvia’s cuisine, but you can’t help but enjoy this dish on National Spanish Paella Day, however you might make it.
 
But remember!  Do not stir it all together. Let it simmer, and crackle. PLACE the scallops, ARRANGE the shrimp and whatever else you might desire. And you can add your favorite Spanish wine to make it a true party!
 
Come to think of it, this is a great ALTERNATE image for immigration to the Americas. We were once called a Melting Pot, as we “melted together” into a homogeneous whole with a common culture. Maybe now we can be a Paella, where we arrange ourselves in peace and order and share the flavor, but not lose our individual nature in the process!
 
Here is a wonderful musical example of this happening in music –  Sting – Buena Vista Social Club!
 
Enjoy National Spanish Paella Day!
 

Rose Sunday

Today Roses in the Alley and much of the world celebrates Rose Sunday, also known as Laetare Sunday and Refreshment Sunday! It is day of rejoicing, and a day of hope, resurrection and light! 

So, we present you with 14 roses, 12 of which are flowers and 2 are wines. (You knew we had to put the rose’ wines in! ). 

These are free images, and you might send your favorite one to your Mom, because in ancient times, this was also Mothering Sunday! And comment to us which one is your favorite.

Have a joyous day!

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Sit here and absorb some oxygen with a glass of wine..Anyone from history, who would you have join you?
Yesterday's moving picture and vino pairing. Gladiator and Warre's Warrior Port
Stained glass; another art form bringing us centuries of beauty.
It's comforting to know that gathering with friends to wet your whistle has always been a thing
"Even the darkest night will end & the sun will rise." - Victor Hugo
This past weekend's moving picture and vino pairing. Blood Diamond and M.A.N. Chenin Blanc!!